"It
is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that
no man can sincerely try to help another without helping
himself."
--
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ahhh.
Words of wisdom. I recently had the privilege to lead
a group of walkers to raise money for Juvenile Diabetes,
a cause very dear to my heart as my 12-year old son battles
it daily. Our team was made of mostly of people I did
not even know.
Over
the course of two months, our team grew and raised money.
We got publicity and we made an impact. I began to receive
donations in the mail to further our cause. There were
some from people I have never met and probably never will.
There were checks that were generous beyond my wildest
expectations from people I did know. The momentum we gained
was substantial and what began as 'something good to do'
(a SHOULD -- 'I should do this,') ended up becoming a
powerful mission for me.
There
is an explosive leap of growth that occurs when one gives
-- whether it be in time, energy or money.
My
daughter's 5th grade class has begun to share their time
once a month with some elderly folks at a nearby assisted
living home. They load up on the bus and go spend time
with their 'buddy' -- each resident there is paired with
a child. My daughter interviews Ruby each time and learns
about her life -- her favorite food being chocolate, how
she has no children, where she grew up, what she believes,
etc. A really beautiful bond is forming and both parties
are blessed from this small gift of kindness. I am grateful
my daughter is learning to freely give at an early age.
Recently,
the minister at the church where I am a member, challenged
the congregation to tithe for at least one month. He asked
us to do this on faith. Just give. He gave us (with permission
from his board) a 'money-back guarantee' if we did not
see more of God's blessings in our life by the end of
the month.
It
was pretty bold. Pretty unheard of, actually. I was definitely
impressed and, of course, had to take the challenge. It
was scary, believe me, but I did have faith. I am pleased
to tell you that the exact dollar amount I gave for THAT
month is the same amount of money I will now receive EACH
month from a new income stream. The giver is blessed.
Kathleen
Kennedy Townsend says that, "The essence of volunteerism
is not in giving part of a surplus one doesn't need, but
giving part of one's self. Such giving is more than a
duty of the heart, but a way people help themselves by
satisfying the deeper spiritual needs that represent the
best in us."
What
can you do to give? Can you share your time? Resources?
Expertise? Compassion? Prayers? Money? Past experiences?
Think about it. You have gifts and talents. How can you
bless the lives of others?
I
encourage you to find a way to share yourself. NOW is
the perfect time. Don't wait. You will bless the lives
of others. And, it is in the giving that the gift is gained
for all.
Beth
Burns is a Professional Life Coach, partnering with motivated
people on their personal and professional goals. |