"Mommy,
what happens when a car gets too old and banged up to
run?" a little girl asked.
"Well,"
her mother said, "someone sells it to your father."
I
think I have bought a couple of cars like that! Like
most people, my life is punctuated by decisions that
did not turn out the way I'd hoped. But we cannot always
be expected to make the best decisions. Sometimes we
simply don't have enough information. And other times,
there just isn't a good decision anywhere to be found!
All we can really do is make decisions the best way
we know how and act on them. Things change only when
decisions change.
Before
his rise to political fame, Maryland Congressman Kweisi
Mfume walked a path of self-destruction. He dropped
out of high school. A few years later, he robbed a pedestrian
in order to join a street gang. Mfume spent the following
years drinking and troublemaking with the gang.
A
turning point came one summer night when he abruptly
decided he could no longer continue on his present course.
He decided to earn his high school equivalency certificate
and later graduated magna cum laude from Morgan State
University in Baltimore. He then went on to earn a graduate
degree at Johns Hopkins University.
When
Mfume ran for Congress in 1986, his opponents tried
to use his old mistakes against him. But his achievements
since he left a troubled past behind captivated an electorate
who voted him into office by an overwhelming 87 percent.
He was on a collision course with total failure until
he made a decision.
What
changes your life is not learning more, though education
is important. What changes your life is making decisions
- the best decisions you can make - and acting on them.
It's been accurately said: "Your decisions determine
your direction, and your direction determines your destiny."
Or put another way, "The decisions you make, make you."
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