There
are three personality powers that top leaders use to increase
their personal power and influence.
YOUR
EMOTIONS ARE CONTAGIOUS
The
first power you can develop is enthusiasm. The more excited
you are about accomplishing something that is important
to you, the more excited others will be about helping
you to do it. The fact is that emotions are contagious.
The more passion you have for your life and your activities,
the more charisma you will possess, and the more cooperation
you will gain from others. Every great man or woman has
been totally committed to a noble cause and, as a result,
has attracted the support and encouragement of others¾in
many cases, thousands or millions of others.
THE
KEY TO CHARISMA
The
second personality power that you can develop is expertise,
or competence. The more knowledgeable you are perceived
to be in your field, the more charisma you will have among
those who respect and admire that knowledge because of
the impact it can have on their lives. This is also the
power of excellence, of being recognized by others as
an outstanding performer in your field. Men and women
who do their jobs extremely well and who are recognized
for the quality of their work are those who naturally
attract the help and support of others. They have charisma.
PREPARE
THOROUGHLY FOR EVERY EVENT
The
third power of personality that gives you charisma in
the eyes of others is thorough preparation, detailed preparation,
prior to undertaking any significant task. Whether you
are calling on a prospect, meeting with your boss, giving
a public talk or making any other kind of presentation,
when you are well prepared, it becomes clear to everyone.
The careers of many young people are put onto the fast
track as a result of their coming to an important meeting
after having done all their homework.
GET
ON TOP OF YOUR SUBJECT
Whether
it takes you hours or even days, if an upcoming meeting
or interaction is important, take the time to get on top
of your subject. Be so thoroughly prepared that nothing
can faze you. Think through and consider every possibility
and every ramification. Often, this effort to be fully
prepared will do more to generate the respect of others
than anything else you can do.
KEEP
GOOD NOTES
Remember
that the power is always on the side of the person who
has done the most preparation and has the best notes.
Everything counts. Leave nothing to chance. When you do
something related to your work or career, take the time
to do it right the first time.
You
are a work in progress. You are always growing and improving.
Your job is to become the very best leader you can be,
and you can - with regular and persistent practice of
these personality powers.
ACTION
EXERCISES
Here
are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas
into action.
First,
get excited about your goals and your work if you want
others to be excited. Express your belief and commitment
to others at every opportunity.
Second,
dedicate yourself to a lifelong process of getting better
and better at what you do. Prepare thoroughly for every
event. Set an example in everything you do.
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