I
learned the wonderful lesson of forgiveness from my mother
because she left us when I was eleven; I was the oldest
of five. I loved her every time she came to visit
us and grew very bitter every time she would leave.
It was then that I made up my mind that when I had children,
I would have my revenge. I resolved that she would
never be allowed to see her grandchildren.
And
then one day, I married Gloria and we had our first child,
a son. Although my mother only lived a mile away,
I knew she would never see her grandson. However, shortly
after my son's birth, something happened that changed
my decision forever. About six months after his
birth, a truck driver introduced me to the love of God
and to His forgiveness. I then realized immediately
how wrong I was. I went to my mother and it was
then that she taught me about forgiveness, because I had
to ask her to forgive me for the resentment I had carried
for all those years. After that I called her weekly
to tell her she was the best mother a kid could ever have
had. I took her to Europe, I bought her a home and I did
the eulogy at her funeral and told everyone there she
was the most wonderful mother a kid could ever have.
But
you might say, "She left you." Yes, she made a mistake,
but she never meant to do it. You see sin makes
us do a lot of things that we never mean to do.
So today I can truly say that one of my greatest accomplishments
was I made my mother happy.
I
used to say the greatest thing you could ever leave your
children is a memory that you loved your mother or father
even if they left you, but then I changed that to the
greatest thing you can ever do is leave your children
with the memory that you loved God. However, after
more thought, reflection and experience I then I saw that
I was wrong there too. Because my children, as they
grow, will see that I'm inconsistent and that at times
I'm a little bit of a hypocrite too. So now I teach
that the greatest thing you can leave your children is
the memory that God loves them just as they are and accepts
them and forgives them.
Charlie
'Tremendous' Jones is the
author of the best-selling book "Life is Tremendous"
and four separate editions of "The Books You Read".
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