Develop
Your Storytelling Abilities
When
we think of Hollywood, what we usually remember most
are the moving, dramatic, and funny stories that movies
tell. The screenwriter Robert McKee says, "Stories are
the creative conversion of life itself into a more powerful,
clearer, more meaningful experience. They are the currency
of human contact."
All
actors recognize the value of great stories and the
importance of making them come alive. I teach business
leaders and sales professionals to use stories to train,
lead and sell.
Some
people are born street-corner, back-fence raconteurs
for whom storytelling is as easy as a smile. Whenever
a group gathers around the coffee pot for the midmorning
ritual, everyone is eager to hear their latest personal
stories. An audience of one or a thousand will always
prefer a trivial story brilliantly told to a brilliant
one told badly.
Executive
speech coaching has become an exciting part of my business.
Often, a corporate speaker brings me sheets of statistics
and says, "Here's what I want to talk about."
"Why
should your audience care about all this?," I ask. "Where
is the excitement? Where is that currency of human contact,
the STORY?" Then we set about turning the numbing data
into stimulating descriptions of what it all MEANS.
More than any words you say, people will remember what
they 'see' in their minds while they are listening.
Don't
depend on PowerPoint, slides, and overheads alone to
tell your story. In a recent speech training session
for engineers, I asked one man to tell us again what
he had been saying, but without the help of his very
expensive, four-color view-graphs. The entire audience
agreed that he was much more effective and passionate
about his subject WITHOUT his visual aids.
Am
I asking you NOT to use these tools? NO! But first decide
what you want to say. What are your points of wisdom?
How can you illustrate these points best? Use your support
materials to support your case. One corporate team walked
out of my studio saying, "This makes so much sense.
We've been putting together 40 PowerPoint slides, then
deciding what to say in between them."
You
need to connect with your audience EMOTIONALLY as well
as intellectually. Look at the people you're talking
to, not at your notes. Keep the type on your slides
to a minimum. Your audience is there to listen to your
stories, not read them.
Relate
your stories to the needs and interests of your audience.
For example, if you're talking to salespeople, tell
stories about how your satisfied clients have used your
product or service. Use their comments as exciting and
vivid dialogue in your story. Follow the classic Hollywood
formula:
Start
with interesting characters.
Add
sparkling dialogue.
End
with an important lesson learned.
Remember,
everyone resists a sales presentation, but few can resist
a good story well told.
Patricia
Fripp CSP, CPAE is a San Francisco-based professional
speaker on Change, Teamwork, Customer Service, Promoting
Business, and Communication Skills. To learn more about Patricia, as
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