I
have been giving some thought lately to optimism and pessimism.
Basically, these are attitudes. Attitudes that shape and
formulate our entire existence. I mean, have you ever
met a happy pessimist? Of course not.
In
short, our optimism or pessimism is this:
The
way we interpret the past
The
way we experience and view the present
The
way we imagine the future
Have
you given much thought about how your attitude, whether
you are an optimist or a pessimist, affects you business,
organization or school? Have you thought about how it
affects you personally? And what about the team you are
a part of?
What
is optimism? It is a belief that things in our past were
good for us, even if that means they were hard and taught
us lessons. It is also the belief that things will be
better in the future.
Here
are some contrasts between optimism and pessimism and
how they affect us:
Optimism
breathes life into you each day
Pessimism
drains you
Optimism
helps you to take needed risks
Pessimism
plays it safe and never accomplishes much
Optimism
improves those around you
Pessimism
drags them down
Optimism
inspires people to great heights
Pessimism
deflates people to new lows
There
is only one way that optimism and pessimism are the same
and that is that they are both self-fulfilling. If you
are an optimist, you will generally find that good things
happen to you. And if you are a pessimist, you will find
yourself in the not-so-good situations more often than
not.
So
can a person just become an optimist? Yes! We can choose
to look at the world any way we want to. We can choose
to look at the world and think the worst, or we can tell
ourselves the good things about each situation. As you
find yourself looking at your enterprise, begin to view
it through the eyes of an optimist, and you will reap
the rewards listed above, and so will the people around
you.
There
are tremendous benefits to being an optimist, as stated
above. But there are some pessimists out there who will
say, "But that isn't realistic." I say "Who cares?" If
things go awry, at least I have spent my time beforehand
enjoying life and not worrying about it. And, being an
optimist, I would view the "negative" situation as an
opportunity to grow and learn. So I can even look forward
to my failures because they will be stepping stones, and
learning tools to be applied to my future success.
Have
you ever met a successful pessimist? Become an optimist
and see your world change before your eyes!
Chris
Widener is a popular speaker and author as well as the President of
Made for Success. Just give him a call at (425) 526-6480 to schedule.
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