If
you want to distance yourself from the masses and enjoy a rich and unique
lifestyle, understand this – your habits will determine your future.
The
fact is, if you keep on doing things a certain way, you will get a predictable
result.
That's the simple law of Cause and Effect. Successful habits create positive
rewards. Negative habits breed negative consequences.
If
you want to enjoy longevity, you must have healthy habits. If you are in
the habit of starving your most important relationships of time, energy
and love, how can you expect a happy outcome? If you spend money on the
fly or don't save any money, your bad habits will lead you to a never-ending
cycle of work.
Shift
yourself out of your bad habits. Fortunately, you can jump from this
bad habits path anytime you want. It's a very simple process – it just
takes some applied focus. Here's the step-by-step process I recommend:
Clearly
identify your bad or unproductive habits. Write them down.
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Be specific.
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Remember to consider the long-term consequences should you continue in
this bad habit. As an example, a couple of cigarettes a day may not seem
like much, but after 10 years, the buildup of having smoked 7,300 cigarettes
remains in your system.
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Consider habits at home, in your communications and relations with others,
at work, in your driving habits, in your free time, and in matters related
to your physical, emotional and spiritual health.
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Be totally honest.
Define
your new successful habit and visualize its results in your life.
Your
new habit is usually the simple opposite of your bad habit. To motivate
yourself, think about all the benefits and rewards for adopting your new
successful habit. The more vividly you describe the benefits and create
the picture in your mind, the more likely you are to take action.
Create
a three-part action plan.
For
every bad habit, there are at least 15 action steps you can take to help
you stop. Put some time into this and think about it – it's easy to come
up with action steps, but they have to be YOUR action steps that you know
are within your realm of taking. As an example, if you want to stop smoking,
hypnosis therapy may be more preferable than a nicotine patch. Don't list
action steps that you know in your heart you won't do.
For
the next three weeks, schedule these action steps into your day.
If
you know you want to start exercising three times a week, schedule it now
in your appointment book. If you want to start reading uplifting books,
schedule an hour in your daily schedule and make plans now as to where
you will read without interruption. Whatever the new habit, work it into
your schedule for the month ahead as most habits – even the very ugliest
ones – can be completely re-patterned in this short timeframe.
Then,
take action! Start with one habit that you really want to change. Focus
on your three immediate steps and put them into action. Do it now. Remember,
nothing will change until YOU do.
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