One
of my favorite people, Winston Churchill, once said, "The truth is incontrovertible.
Malice may attack it and ignorance may deride it, but in the end there
it is." Now I'll give you the Bill Bailey hillbilly version.
"You might as well start with the truth, you are going to end with it."
The
words I believe, the words I think, the words I feel, may or may not be
true. The words I experience are true. Where you are today
is the sum total of every experience you have had in your life. And
you had the opportunity to say "yes" or to say "no." Whatever good
happened to you, you ought to take credit. And whatever blame happened
to you, you get that too. Because you could have said "yes" or said "no."
Wherever you are is okay, because you are here. And if everything
hadn't happened exactly the way it did in your life, you would not be here.
You might have not survived.
Your
direction is critical. Because one thing I will assure you of, in
your life after seventy years of watching it, It Will Change! All
positions are temporary. Take a look behind you. As Shakespeare
said, "Straight satisfy yourself as the truth of it." And again I'll
remind you. Whether you like it or not, you look in the mirror, that
is your problem and that is your solution.
When
I was very young I learned my first lesson in motivation, absence of options
will create a very quick and powerful decision. I was born and raised
in the hills of Kentucky, what you all call Appalachia. We called
it just plain poor.
There
were eleven kids in the family. We had six flat acres, the rest of
them were on the hills. We plowed with mules. I was born in
1930, we didn't have paved roads until I was 15. We had electricity
when I was 16. We never had indoor plumbing. So we were a family,
but we walked to church together and we walked back together. We
had a very unusual community feeling.
So
one day when I was 15 years old, I was plowing corn. The last time
you plow a field is in August and in August, it's very hot, it's very humid.
Well, I was plowing about three o'clock, back in a place called the Dorsey
Holler. And I, like most young people decided I was not going to
plow anymore, so I spent about five minutes thinking up a nice lie I was
gonna tell my father if he asked. So I backed up under this big beech
tree, sat down, tied the plow lines of the mule up to the plow handles,
lit a cigarette. About that time I heard a voice say, "What in the
h__ do you think you are doing?" And there stood my father looking
like a rain cloud about to burst. I quickly whipped out my best lie
and said, "Well, the ground was hard and the mule didn't want to pull the
plow." He asked, "Did you hit it?" I said, "NO." He said,
"Well son you can hit the mule or I am hitting you." I HIT THE MULE!
Here
is the next statement for you. It is a shame that we wait for something
outside us to cause us to do what we ought to do ourselves. Why did
I wait for someone to force me to do what I should have been doing?
We should all be truly excited about the rest of our lives because we have
the greatest single tool in the world called the human brain.
My
first eight years of school were in a two-room schoolhouse. Woody
Craft, a Baptist minister, was our teacher. Woody taught me something
that I will never forget, because he made me an absolute fortune and he
gave me the window into an incredible world. Every Friday, after
lunch at one o'clock, he would gather all the two rooms together and he
would read books like "Pilgrim's Progress," "Call of the Wild," and "Robinson
Crusoe." And he read them in voices. I thought that was incredible.
I thought, "My God what an adventurous world right at my fingertips."
I learned to love to read.
After
I learned to read, I then learned something else to further my reading
skills. Because we were very poor, we used coal-oil lamps.
Kerosene if you will. And my father did not like to have the lamps
burn too long. When he said to turn that light out, what he wanted
to hear was click, the sound of it being turned off. It was not a
debate session. So I learned to do something that people now teach,
speed reading. Well, I learned to speed read because of my father.
When he'd come home I'd have to cut wood for the stove, help milk the cow
and feed the mule, so by the time I got a chance to read, I only had a
half an hour left of daylight. So out of necessity, I learned to
look at a paragraph until I absorbed it. And the funny thing about
absorbing it, is it never goes away. It's always there.
In
the same way, life asks us to absorb; absorb the experiences and the moments.
For example, at times when I have been in the mountains or sailing far
out to at sea, poems appear. Now I cannot write poetry, but over
the last twenty years, I have had some come to me. I don't question
where they come from. These poems come from a source, I'll leave
it up to you to decide what that source is. I've never tried to make
them come. I can now sum up my philosophy for you in a poem.
As a matter of fact, about five or six years ago, somebody got me to write
them down in a book called "Rhythms of Life." Up until that time
I had never written them down, I had never seen the need to because I keep
them in my memory. One day somebody asked, "Well what if you pass
away and they aren't written down?" I said, "Well you know, there
is no direct evidence I will ever expire, but circumstantially it is fairly
strong. I may in fact do that."
This
one poem sums up my philosophy. How I have lived ever since I came
across the idea that there are no limits on what I can do or what I can
be.
So
I am going to do the poem for you. It is called "A Warrior's Song."
This poem appeared to me when I was at Beartrap Lake, which is 11,400 feet
up on the Eastern slope of the Sierras. There is about a four acre
lake above the tree line. As I crawled out of a sleeping bag one
morning, just as the sun came up over the ridge, it seemed to move through
the meadow just like a wave of water. The wave of light lit the wildflowers
and then it hit some snow over on the north side where it doesn't melt.
And this is what appeared in my mind.
A
WARRIOR'S SONG
The
sun kisses a mountain top
And
glistens on its face of snow,
And
slowly climbs into the sky above
And
lights the valley below.
For
each of us that this day awakes
A
miracle takes place.
For
once again we walk our earth
And
own all upon its face.
And
the past regrets and foolish fears
Of
yesterday's cloudy mind,
Are
washed away by the light of day
And
seem so far behind.
For
each of us is reborn each day,
Our
life renews again.
And
with the help of God we will find a cause
That
makes us want to win.
For
a man without a goal in life
Is
a man already dead.
His
mind wanders from place to place,
And
he walks with feet of lead.
He
has no reason to stretch his mind,
No
spirit to stir his soul.
His
name is not even in the book,
When
destiny calls the roll.
Better
to take the wine of life
And
drink both deep and long --
Greet
each day 'cause you're here to stay,
And
sing your warrior's song.
For
the battle of life is joined, and
You
might fight long and true.
For
in this strife, it's the game of your life
And
the only loser is you.
Gird
up your loins with courage
And
answer the trumpets call,
And
lose or win, you can say at the end,
This
was the greatest of all!
--William
E Bailey--- William
E. Bailey is a respected speaker and author, a Horatio Alger Award
recipient, and author of "The Rhythms of Life," Mr. Bailey's
book of poems and philosophical writings. |