Maybe
you know him. Meet Fearful Fred. He takes to risk like
a cat takes to water. Fred is constantly undermining
himself with a built-in fear of failure. Fearful Fred
means well, but more than anyone on your team, he needs
your support.
Start
by listening to him. Take Fred aside and encourage him
to share his fears. Once you've identified his fears,
try to help him determine why he has them.
The
next step is to help Fred tap into his desire to overcome
his fears and succeed. As his leader, you must endeavor
to help him harness that desire.
As
soon as Fred is ready to take the plunge, lead him in
a project that will give him a win under his belt. To
maximize Fred's chance of success, be sure to include
the following elements:
1.
Strategy:
Begin
by planning a project together; including Fred increases
his ownership and confidence; including yourself insures
success.
2.
Structure:
Once
you have a plan, give Fred very specific guidelines
to follow. Remember, Fred's problem is fear of failure.
Make this first project like a follow-the-numbers painting.
That takes the doubt out of the process for Fred.
3.
Safety:
Be
sure to pick a project that is easy, and for which the
stakes are not too high.
4.
Security:
Do
as much with Fred on the project as you can. This will
give him confidence and build your relationship with
him.
5.
Success:
If
you begin with a project that you know is winnable,
then you guarantee Fred a personal success. And nothing
succeeds like success.
When
a Fearful Fred overcomes his doubts, he can become a
Faithful Fred. Even a Fearless Fred.
John
C. Maxwell is an internationally-acclaimed author
and speaker on the subject of leadership. Learn more at http://www.johnmaxwell.com/. ©
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