Do
you remember the thrill of getting a new pair of shoes?
As I was growing up, my mother, much like your mother
probably did for you, would take me to the shoe store
to buy a pair of shoes. After trying on a few different
pairs of shoes and walking around the store with them
we would find a pair that we liked. Then, and only then,
our mothers would give the ultimate test, the Thumb
Test. Using their thumb, they would push down on the
end of the toe to make sure that the shoe had plenty
of what? Growing room. Why? Because they wanted to make
sure that the shoes allowed for our feet to grow, rather
than only being comfortable for a short time. Does this
sound familiar?
Now
that I am full grown I no longer use this thumb test.
No longer am I growing, no longer do I need the extra
room. For the rest of my life I will wear the same shoe
size. It is one of those limitations that God placed
on these bodies of ours. I will never be any taller
then I am now, I might grow a little around the middle
as some of us have a tendency to do in later years,
but as a general rule we are done growing-or are we?
Perhaps we should look beyond the physical to our minds,
our character, even our personalities. All of these
were meant to keep on growing indefinitely! The great
thing about life is that there are no limitations on
how much we can grow and develop. Unfortunately most
people don't tap into their growth potential. Benjamin
Franklin's thoughts captured on this gravestone inscription
are very true:
Died
- age 25
Buried
- age 70
Here
lies the average person
Most
of us complete our education and we stop learning and
growing. What a tragedy, what an utter waste of a great
life! Don't let this be you! Don't ever stop learning;
always keep growing. I want to encourage you to make
yourself a lifelong learner. No matter what level your
abilities are, you have more potential then you could
ever realize in your lifetime!
So
why do people stop growing? Is it a conscious choice-or
more a lack of a making a choice? You see, upon reaching
adulthood, most people find an "environment" that they
feel comfortable in, much like a worn pair of comfortable
shoes. The choice that has to be made is that of stepping
out of our comfortable environment into one that is
bigger than we currently are in, the same way we used
to get a pair of shoes that we could grow into. Figuratively,
find a pair of shoes for your mind that gives you room
to grow. Step out and step up to a responsibility that
is "too big" for you right now and that requires your
growth in order to fulfill it. Find an environment where
you are forced to grow just to keep up. Keep stepping
out and stepping up for as long as you want to grow.
Because you will never find a shoe for your mind so
big that you cannot grow into it.
Give
your life the Thumb Test; step out of your comfort zones,
take on new challenges, and stretch yourself. Do things
that you never thought you could do. Take on a responsibility
that is more than you feel like you can handle so that
you will be challenged to live up to it. Don't ever
get a pair of shoes for your life that fit you perfectly;
always provide some growing room. If the shoe fits,
don't wear it Experience once again, or maybe for the
first time, the thrill of learning, of conquering! The
thrill of growing into a new pair of shoes.
Seth
Getz is a small business consultant and a coach
for people who want to grow their business. Learn more at www.sethgetz.com. |