Self-Discipline
really encompasses nearly everything in life. Do you remember in school
when you were given 30 days to write a term paper? Did you start it that
first night?
Most
of us didn't. Instead, we thought about it every night. "Got to get moving
on that ratty project. But I've got almost a whole month left--it can wait."
As time goes by, worry about getting a failing grade looms larger in our
minds. At first the pain of starting the term paper is greater than our
concern about the failing grade, so after a week we still haven't started.
Two weeks go by. What are we doing every night before we go to sleep? Worrying
about that F. "I better start. Tomorrow I'll get moving on it."
A week
before the term paper is due, the F is getting larger--but it's still not
quite large enough to offset the pain of working at preventing it. All
of a sudden there are only three days left before it's due, and at last
the F looms larger than the pain of working on the term paper. So
we start.
As
you lay it out you begin feeling some enthusiasm. "This isn't bad. I may
get an A if I do this and do that." When you walk in with your paper you're
happy, but you wasted 27 days worrying about starting. In other words,
you operated at a deficit emotionally for 27 days when you could have been
in the profit column the whole time. Move into the emotional profit column
right now; starting today, get your priority tasks and actions handled
promptly. Plan your actions, then act on your plans. Apply this determination
to every area of your life and it will make an enormous difference in your
income, growth rate in business as well as your satisfaction and growth
rate personally.
The
portrait of a man who was being called the Whiz Kid on Wall Street appeared
on the cover of a national magazine many years ago. He was one of the first
to put a conglomerate together, and some of the federal laws affecting
business in the early 70's came about because of the trends that his creativity
set off. At the time he was 42, he was running one of the largest industrial
combines in the country, the conglomerate he had built himself. So the
magazine had assigned a journalist and a team of researchers to do an in-depth
report on this entrepreneur.
One
of the researchers went to the small city the dynamic executive had left
15 years earlier. A few items turned up there about an alcoholic with the
same name who had been sleeping on park benches at that time. The researcher
passed this information along, and as the journalist was concluding his
interview with the Wall Street powerhouse in his plush office, the journalist
laughed and said, "Believe it or not, a man with your exact name was sleeping
on park benches and getting ousted by the police when you lived in your
home town. I guess the poor guy was a real wino. Isn't that something?"
The
president looked up and smiled. "That was me," he said.
The
reporter was flabbergasted. "This can't be. You're kidding."
The
president of the conglomerate leaned back in his leather chair and shook
his head. "I'm not kidding. The wino sleeping off drinks on park benches
was me."
The
journalist stared at him for a moment and realized that the man was telling
the truth. He also realized that now he had a whole new story. When
his apologies were waved aside, he said, "I have to ask, what made you
change?"
Listen
to what he said because so many people fit this mold: "When I was sleeping
under newspapers in the park 15 years ago, I knew that someday I would
do what I'm doing now. I was just waiting until I was ready to start."
Do
you know how many people are like that? "Well, next year's my year.
I'm going to get to work then. You just wait and see--right after the first
of the year I'm gonna start shaping up." But of course the time to get
going never quite comes for most people. They have good intentions, but
are lacking the two most vital components of any good deed: the motivation
to begin and a strategic plan to keep them moving forward.
You
see, by not beginning, you're not risking failure, but you're also confining
yourself to the level of success you currently have. If you're happy with
that, fine. If not, make that plan and get fired up!
If
your potential for greater success is nagging at you, don't wait. Time
is flying by so fast. Start today to achieve the greatness you know is
within you.
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